Have you ever watched people catch crabs by the sea? There's something fascinating that happens when they put crabs in an open bucket. They don’t even bother to close the bucket, and yet none of the crabs escape. Ever wonder why?
It’s because crabs are naturally selfish.
When one crab tries to climb out of the bucket, another crab uses it as a stepping stone, trying to pull itself over the top. But in the process, it pulls the climbing crab down. Over and over, they do this, until none of them can escape. Every crab is focused on its own way out, and by pulling each other down, they all stay trapped.
This behavior gives us an essential truth about life: if we only think of ourselves, we’ll never rise above our struggles. But when we support others, help them reach greater heights, we all get the chance to escape our metaphorical buckets.
Once you’ve reached your goals, it’s time to turn around and help others achieve theirs. It’s not just an option—it’s a responsibility. When you extend a hand to lift someone up, not only do you elevate them, but you also experience a deeper sense of fulfillment in your own life.
If you’ve been blessed with success in your studies, teach others.If you’ve built a thriving business, help others build theirs.If you’ve found fulfillment in relationships, share your wisdom.
At the end of the day, we come into this world with nothing and we leave with nothing. What truly matters is the difference we make in the lives of others."Beyond the Crab Mentality: Lifting Others to Greater Heights"
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